Yep you have a rager, frustrated because you aren't playing her game.

She is frustrated that her entitled ways are not being met. Like a child whose mother won't buy her a toy.

Oh and projection so, so much projection. Classic script as expected, a good L will set limits.

Smile, it's on cue, it's script and standard.

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According to her, I am going to contest the divorce in hopes of changing her mind, which is not something I discussed with my attorney.

That's because it's herself she is talking about. You have laid ground rules here and it's thwarted her happy ever after dream.

I told my attorney I need some more time to make a decision.

Your attorney will be keeping this confidential.
Hers will have told her that this is a negotiation and there are guidance, rules and processes. Probably she won't get what she wants and it will be slower than she thought.

Anyone who is mature and grounded needs time, the systems are often slowing the process too. You are the adult and behaving like one. How annoying of you.

She is now calling me selfish, manipulative, and pathetic. I'll never be the man she wants to love, etc. Now she is going to fight me for everything, blah blah blah.

Projection. You do know that you are actually the reverse of their description of you when they spew like this? It's a great compliment to be described this way.

Your stance has shook her.

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Goodness gracious. After that long rant detailing how she thinks I'm a pathetic sniveling loser, yada yada and explaining that all communication will go through our lawyers from now on...

Oh yes.

She has texted me several times. Sheesh.

Oh Yes!! She really 'means' what she says as this demonstrates. Afraid the new you will actually call her bluff and her little entitled dream is over. Reality bites. It's a bucket of cold water on her delusions.

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It's all game play on her behalf. Be strong, you are doing great. Resist the temptation to tell her to grow up. Just continue to demonstrate you are an adult and you are responsible for you and she is responsible for herself.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW