Husband gone for the second time - 2

[Sotto]

I'm sorry to read this Nicole and big hugs to you ((((Nicole)))) It is horrible to hear those words for sure and of course you are sad...

Is there hope? Absolutely, there is always hope if you choose to leave the door open to a possible reconciliation. Situations go to all sorts of places and still some people reconcile. So do remember one of the 37 rules which says not to give up hope no matter how hopeless things may feel. His words and actions right now need not affect hope if you choose to remain hopeful..

Now, I would sit right back and not mention divorce again. If he mentions it, that's up to him. And if he wants a divorce, you can sit back and let him initiate every step of the way. In my case, I let XH do every bit of the running and I purely responded as and when..

I also think it was 6 months or so after XH said he would file before he actually did file...

Any ways my lovely - absorb this latest development, look after you, leave him be - and do consult a L and have your chosen L ready just in case.

Xxx