Yeah, its starting to amuse me too, actually.

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she was seemingly half-levitating off the edge.


Thats funny too, what is wrong with these people??

Yep, same with my W. Hated to touch me and kept so far away from me in the bed.
Dark days and so hurtful at the time.

Also, just emailed my siblings(I have 6) and my dad with a unembellished timeline of all the evidence that I had of W's affair over past year. I felt they needed to know it, I needed their validation(I've had plenty here on this forum). They liked my wife and got on well with her mostly. I know one sister was really sorry to take her off the family whatsapp. I think they may have thought I was exaggerating.
I even asked them to play devils advocate if they thought I was being spiteful or wrong.
I've got overwhelming support back from them, its a good feeling.
I know I'm doing the right thing. I am not spiralling.
I dont feel confused, out of control anymore. I can see a future now.
I'm a little hurt by her continued rage and denial but its getting easier.


M-45
W-32
D-10 D-8
Together 11 years
Married 6 years
Separated 6/2017
ILYBINILWY 11/2016 (also nov 2011)
EA 11/16
PA Same time??
NC, detachment started 12/11/17
D aug 2019