Originally Posted By: Joe2017

I had to move back to my home per my attorney. I tried to get out, but my lawyer told me definitely not.


Ah, I see your reasoning. Makes sense.

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All I said today was "hello", "oh ok" and I said that her texts during the break did not meet my rules. She said I needed to change my rules and I said "No. I don't." and left the conversation.


Good!

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NC helped me a lot. Every conversation with her she turned into an argument, so I had to do something.


Yeah, that's exactly when NC is needed.

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I don't even recognize my W anymore. She's a totally different person. I also have a different sitch than TXHubby because WW already filed for D. I think today I decided that all I really want to do until this is over is sleep in the MBR and be left alone by WW.


Well it may be a little different, but I think there are a lot of parallels. His W was very angry/argumentative/confrontational like yours is, and had that same haughty attitude. It's amazing how she snapped out of it though, it really does go to show that even though WAS's often change into unrecognizable monsters they -can- change back again.

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None of her insults or threats have any sting to them anymore. I just don't care.


That's kind of the point TXH got to as well. It sounds like maybe this isn't a "strategy" to you after all as I mentioned earlier, but rather your state of mind really is similar to his now. You've had enough and you're going to do your thing and leave her to her mess.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57