Hang in there M her nastiness will pass. My K exchanges were pretty wierd in the beginning, I was nervous and lacking confidence. 7 months in they are much better these days and my W is much more friendly. She lost her nastiness about 2.5 months ago.

Continue dark contact only around money and kid stuff. I never look to initiate contact and I don't ask them what they did during their time spent with the W. I only know what they offer up.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018