Thanks Surfer. All this validation and the eerily similar stories on these forums are really helping me right now. All Sandi's thread on the anger/vitriol/entitlement of a true unrepentant WW are giving me an insight into their behaviour. I know I have been abused too and am reading the abuse thread with interest.
I'll look into that book you suggested too.I'm sure none of it will be a surprise.
So, anyway, I'll keep writing updates as they happen. Collected the girls from W this morning. She is even madder(if that is possible) and now parks 5 spaces away from me in the parking lot. Great example for our girls. What a piece of work she truly is.
Staying NC,looking after my girls. Trying not to talk about it especially as she is mad at them for telling me that they were at his house...
Anyway, onwards and upwards...I WILL become Super Morbo!!
M-45 W-32 D-10 D-8 Together 11 years Married 6 years Separated 6/2017 ILYBINILWY 11/2016 (also nov 2011) EA 11/16 PA Same time?? NC, detachment started 12/11/17 D aug 2019