New LBS dealing with WW Part 3

[Joe2017]

Surfer:
Thanks for the support. She is having a temper tantrum. It's old hat at this point. I think she and a friend are scheming on a way to force me out of the home. She was very mad about MBR. I told her she can sleep anywhere but I'm sleeping in the bed. I don't care if she sleeps there but I'm not sleeping anywhere else. She slept in another room after calling me a control freak.

AS:
I had to move back to my home per my attorney. I tried to get out, but my lawyer told me definitely not.

I had went NC on text and phone a week prior to the two week break I took away from her. While I was away from home it was as close to 100% NC as possible. When I came back, I took the store clerk mentality.

All I said today was "hello", "oh ok" and I said that her texts during the break did not meet my rules. She said I needed to change my rules and I said "No. I don't." and left the conversation.

NC helped me a lot. Every conversation with her she turned into an argument, so I had to do something. I was able to sort out a lot of my feelings, and while my emotions are still raw, I was able to finally think without her bothering me all the time. I think NC helped deal with the "withdrawals" the LBS can have from their spouse basically disappearing.

Today I listened to a song on the radio that I haven't been able to listen to since BD. I don't even recognize my W anymore. She's a totally different person. I also have a different sitch than TXHubby because WW already filed for D. I think today I decided that all I really want to do until this is over is sleep in the MBR and be left alone by WW.

None of her insults or threats have any sting to them anymore. I just don't care. When it involves my kid, thats a totally different story.