I've heard from other sources that my W has said to them that there's nothing wrong with me and I've been a good husband. This was in mid summer. Few months later I was was the worst hubby that ever walked on this planet. But still W told that I've been a great dad. Yet she spews about me doing things wrong with them. That has decreased, thank God. Alltogether the spews have decreased. I don't respond to them at all anymore. In the beginning I did and it just made things worse. Even if my response was "I'm not getting in to this now".
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
