Sorry you are dealing w/this. I know that pain and you're handling it very well. Just make sure not to bottle that anger, let it go however you can. One thing I've had to deal w xw having s wear hand me downs from suspected om2. I actually have thrown a couple things away, cheap t shirts that just slapped me in the face. I buy the kids clothes all the time so it's not like they needed them and it felt good not having them. He still has a couple things i think came from him but they don't stand out to remind me and I've forgot about it w/time. When s was wearing a shirt once and it was bothering me I just asked if he could please change shirts. Maybe tell your d it's a beautiful dress and you'd hate for her to get it dirty. That way at the very least you don't have to see the reminder.
This guy must be a real t@rd. Know that this won't last, he is trying to impress, and your kids will see what is really happening some day (I'm sure the older ones do) and you will be there for them.
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