New LBS dealing with WW Part 3

[Joe2017]

Thanks everyone.

I had to end full NC and go limited NC under the same roof. I went back to my home. I love the TXHubby approach, and I am trying to go that route.

This sitch is upsetting because it causes so much division between our two boys. But when it comes down to it, hers is hers and mine is mine. I hate that they are caught in the middle.

I came back to find all family photos hidden away (thrown?) and she has divided the MBR and kitchen into "her side" and my side. She has told me not to talk to her son. She is telling me that he is saying things about me that he is not saying.

Basically she is super mad that I went NC and would not communicate AND she's upset about having to relinquish the MBR. She said I'm trying to control her now, and that the lack of communication from me justifies her decision to D. Blah blah.

I only said three things to her today, "Hi" "OK" and "I'm staying out of your space".

Oh and she's left "evidence" of her A around the house for me to find. It's beginning to feel really abusive and manipulative. I am glad to be home but I do not deserve this abuse.

I know she is trying to mind#&____ me. It's getting under my skin slightly but at least I recognize what she's doing.