Aaaaand just had DC, and she's all back to business, and in fact was questioning if she should have more than 50/50 split with the kids due to my anger.
Kept my calm, validated, and listened. Then talked about what I was doing for my anger. Still on 50/50 after the DC.
Me: Mid 40s W : Early 40s M:11 T:13 S, D, both 7-10 BD : 11/2017 Separation : 1/18