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and I'm not sure what to do next


Yes you do. Live you're life like she's not coming back. Like Job says keep those expectations at zero and focus on Huddy.

She's not I'll. she's not having a crisis. There is no process here.

One of the biggest lessons I learned about cheaters is image management. If they can be you're friend then what they did isn't so bad. Because you're now friends.

How undignified is that?

We all have to change plans at times. And that's ok. And she's now seeing her S as per her schedule. Good. That's what being an adult means. Looking after your children. Does she get a new string for her harp for being an angle? Erm nope. Coz you stood up to the plate for him. Where was she? I'll tell you where, chasing fekin unicorns.

I agree with Job. She's bouncing mate. Floating around in her broken dreams.

3 step plan.

Let it go.
Drop the rope.
Live your life.

Peace


Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.