Even if she's not having sex with the guy an affair is an affair.
Well, 100% EA and more than likely PA. Its been going over a year.
So,no NC from both of us since yesterday. She texted me just before she picked up girls to say to have them outside the house. Cold, unrepentant, she stayed in the car glaring at me. I hugged and kissed the girls and smiled and waved them all goodbye. She is really trying to make ME feel like crap because she destroyed a marriage with the A but I'm still to blame for everything. LOL I'm glad, it can keep going this way, I'll be strong. I only feel sorry for my girls who have to witness it. I'm going to be happy and professional around W. It looks like she's NEVER going to get it. I hope she's not cooking up something bad because she f**Kin really hates me right now.
Anyway, got to go to work. Will have to repeat the same routine with W and kids twice tomorrow and same on friday, yay!!
M-45 W-32 D-10 D-8 Together 11 years Married 6 years Separated 6/2017 ILYBINILWY 11/2016 (also nov 2011) EA 11/16 PA Same time?? NC, detachment started 12/11/17 D aug 2019