Thanks everyone. Ignored the note and am continuing the path to move out. I am guessing it will take a few weeks. I’m not thrilled that it has come to this and I do have my doubts that this is the right thing to do but the current status isn’t working for me. Little kids will have the most trouble with the change so will have to deal with that.

So another advice solicitation/venting:

Most days I no longer think about OM2. But I do have my triggers. The biggest one is the presents OM2 gives my kids. I know I can’t control that but it drives me ****ing nuts. Kid x is wearing a new dress. I say nice dress! Kid x says OM2 got it for me! It makes me want to throw the dress in the trash.

Is this just another one of those things I ignore? As Ginger says, is this another bullet I take for them? Do I tell stbx I think this is wrong?


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving