I'm going by what she was wearing when she came home from a party. I haven't seen her nor had any voice communication in 2 weeks. I have not checked on her whereabouts, her SM, or anything else during this time. This reaction about her clothes is just a result of me being insulted by her behavior.
Good! Just don't let her know or show her you are insulted by her behavior. Keep your feelings close to your vest. Poker right?
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I took the MBR back around week 2 into this process, but I have been away from home for a couple weeks now so I am taking it back when I return. She is well aware of this and has mentioned her disdain for it but she can't do anything about it either.
Good.....she is cheating and you don't share your bed with a cheater. She made a choice and their are consequences to her decision.
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What a pain. I'm going to start the hardcore IDGAF because I can't care anymore. I have to focus ALL of the good emotions I have left on myself and my kid.
Good! our kid should be priority number 1! Just remember in your IDGAF attitude to not come across as cold, punitive or vindictive. Some people confuse detaching with coming across as angry or cold. IF it seems that way to you then you will need to tweak. Make sense?
