Subitai, I'm so sorry to hear that this move is happening soon. It's so sad for the kids. I wish there'd be some way for you and your wife to fix things. I'm so sad for my daughter in my situation and wish so badly that kids didn't have to suffer through these things. It sounds like you're dealing with everything well. I hope there's still a chance your wife will change her mind. You two are still talking and that's a positive sign.