New LBS dealing with WW Part 3

[joejoe1]

Joe,

Slow down, take a breath and breath. Please go for a walk or long car drive. Remember this is not a sprint it's a marathon. There will be days when you want to throw in the towel, but you did the right thing by coming to the board first.

I called a lawyer after about three weeks of DB to ask about D, and the lawyer told me to explain my situation, and she told me I wasn't ready to D, she also said my W wasn't ready, even after I explained all that was going on. She told me that she has dealt with a lot of M and D and we haven't gotten to that point of D yet.

Most LBS have been where you at, I was spinning for weeks, but you have to find a way to let the old M go and work on yourself, make yourself on a person a fool would leave. The only way to do that, is not worry or care about what your W is doing. Now it's time for you to start to get better. I talked to GOD and found my grace. Once I felt GOD's grace, I was able to slow myself down and react and act in the moments I needed to around my W and for myself.

This is the hardest thing you will ever do, it will come with mistakes, wanting to give up on the M and your W. It will also come with you wanting to show your W a attractive, confident, positive, and masculine Joe2018, not Joe2017. Let's go Joe2018. A new and better you.