You are handling your situation with a lot of dignity, grace and a whole lot of patience. You've become detached from your wife's nonsense and can speak to her in a tone that she is hearing and acknowledging. You continue to focus on your life and most importantly, you are being a wonderful father to your children. You have a lot to be proud of because this particular "trip on the yellow brick road" is not fun at all.
My wish for you is that 2018 provides you w/some additional peace and answers as you continue to move forward.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
