You have finally started to get through to her. Since this is working, why would you change what you are doing that seems to finally have some success?
Keep going with your plans and dont waver at this point. Get your place and get settled in. You are still on this marathon and it cannot be shortened. Your wife needs to do her work now to win you back, not the other way around. You need for her to do this on her own or it will fail. She needs to accept what she has done and do what she needs to do to get herself straightened out. Your telling her won't fix it. She now needs to figure out on her own what she needs to do to regain her family. My ex is still struggling with this, so even this part of the journey can take years.
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