Crud, one misquote up there... hopefully you can sort it out. The "I never talked about divorce, but I avoided doing a lot of things that needed to be done, emotionally withdrawing to protect myself and 'keep the peace', so we have some similar issues going on here, but we refer to talking about divorce as the BD, or Bomb Drop, because it is devastating to the person on the receiving end, and you have now discovered." was a response to the quote right above it.
Me: Mid 40s W : Early 40s M:11 T:13 S, D, both 7-10 BD : 11/2017 Separation : 1/18
The "I never talked about divorce, but I avoided doing a lot of things that needed to be done, emotionally withdrawing to protect myself and 'keep the peace', so we have some similar issues going on here, but we refer to talking about divorce as the BD, or Bomb Drop, because it is devastating to the person on the receiving end, and you have now discovered." was a response to the quote right above it.
