Tread, I did not come back to my husband... I came back because my daddy was going to have gall bladder surgery... When I came back, we all decided that I would stay and live with my parents to help them with every day things... Today they are 91 and 94, in good health but cannot drive and run errands, stuff like that... while I lived with my niece and her family, I felt sheltered... like I was at a retreat... I was ready to face my life head on, to be with my sons--who needed me...