Another Stander wrote..
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Brother she is having an A, how many people need to tell you this? Why do you need her to admit it so bad? She will NEVER admit it! And even if she did, it doesn't change anything. She's still a lying cheater.


Because I still dont have the ultimate 100% proof I guess, pictures, I suppose. I know EVERYONE here is with me. BUT I'd hate to think that I was accusing someone wrongly, especially W.

Anyway, I'm trying to get over it. She's still emailing me every half hour to tell me what a POS I am. I'm deleting and not responding.

Doodler wrote
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You're not wrong. I know because I went through the same thing. It's a cruel game that your wife is playing.


Its beyond cruel. Who is this person I married?

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I know how much you need external confirmation that you're not wrong so here it is: YOU'RE NOT WRONG! You're wife is playing you and you need to stop being a dumb@ss and come to your senses.


Lol, dumb*ss.
Yep, I need ALL the external confirmation. W is pushing every button right now.
I think my action of telling my family has sent over the edge. It has really rattled her cage.

She just emailed me to say she's looking into D. Its the first time she's done this.
She also emailed me THIS to rile me.
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I will be telling the girls what is going on so they don't grow up believing all the nasty things you will choose to say about me. My children are going abroad to a different country for 6 weeks with now a huge group of people who will despise me for no reason whatsoever other than you decide to smear me. I've never wanted to be more vile and nasty than I do right now. I wish I could fu**ing rub it in that I had been fu**ing him or carrying on. I wish that were true so I could fu**ing hurt you.


Ouch


M-45
W-32
D-10 D-8
Together 11 years
Married 6 years
Separated 6/2017
ILYBINILWY 11/2016 (also nov 2011)
EA 11/16
PA Same time??
NC, detachment started 12/11/17
D aug 2019