Oh and I totally agree on that "why are you still single" question. I get asked that all the time. Here's my thing: I know what I have to offer and I'm confident in who I am, just like I know you are, G. I'm still single because I haven't found the one who deserves me just yet. But I will, if it is meant to be. Or I won't, if it isn't meant to be, but either way, I'm NOT settling. I deserve a good guy and I'll hold out for that. In the meantime, I have a laundry list of reasons that I now randomly pull from my hat when asked that because it is such a stupid question, I feel like it deserves an equally stupid answer. My favorites include: "Well, when men find out I snapped and killed my last husband because he ate the last of the peanut butter, they tend to get scared off, especially if they like peanut butter."; "I don't know, but why don't we phone a friend and take a poll of why ex-husbands 7-10 think I'm still single?"; "Because I'm too much woman and most men aren't man enough to handle ALL of THIS (motioning to self in an overly-dramatic way)."
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
