Nothing to communicate with words right now. And the message you want to try to communicate NON-VERBALLY through your disinterest is "Hey, I get it, we're on different pages, not surprising since we're getting a divorce (chuckle)". Again, you don't actually say this. But this is the vibe she should get.
I get that it is hard. My WAW pushed every button she could. At one point she (I swear you can't make this stuff up) accused me of being responsible for our miscarried child because of my ten year speed addiction (this was news to me). I've never been accused of anything as outrageous as the death of our child before. I'll admit that it hurt. But I deleted that and moved forward.
I have some thinks I can link up later for you to read but for now hang in. I need to go back to work
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15