I see in your signature that you are "No contact". She bombs you a long email with her spin on why she's right and you're wrong.
When I read that you replied I almost fell out of my chair.
No contact and no relationship talks mean you need to stay out of this drama. Being drawn into a "yes you are" "no I'm not" "yes you are" is childish. Whatever words in your reply you used the true message you sent was "WAS, I am still so emotionally connected to you that it kills me to have you view me in a way I don't like, so I must react by trying to win you over to my way of thinking".
I agree in this situation NC is 100% appropriate and I would challenge you to step up your NC game. You'd be amazed at some of the emails or texts that look like they demand a reply that can be deleted.
Hang in.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
