Morbo, I'm a few weeks behind here so am trying to catch up on threads. I just read through two weeks of your posts and man oh man are you ever spinning. Dude listen, you need to REALLY and TRULY go NC. You keep saying "NC is going really well! Oh by the way I emailed her and called her out on blah blah blah". Do you know what NC means? NO CONTACT. It doesn't mean no contact for a few hours and then email and then no contact for a few more hours and then text. It means NO CONTACT. PERIOD. What do you hope to accomplish by constantly challenging your W about the A? You want her to admit to it? OK so say she does, then what? What would it change? Brother she is having an A, how many people need to tell you this? Why do you need her to admit it so bad? She will NEVER admit it! And even if she did, it doesn't change anything. She's still a lying cheater.
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Man, this is wearing me out. I need to run.
YOU are wearing you out! And you can't run from you, because wherever you run, there you are. LISTEN to us! Get out, GAL. LEAVE YOUR W ALONE. Quit contacting her except as is required minimally for the kids, and even then treat it like it's business. Discuss pickup and dropoff times, period. Focus on you and the kids. Leave her be.
