How do I respond to the following?

Stbx knows I found an apartment and am planning the logistics of my move. Last night, I am out without her and the kids and come home late to a note that says I wish you would treat me like your w again.

1. Ignore?
2. Write a note back or have a R discussion and say what? She knows exactly what she would need to do to take steps back (cut off OM2, withdraw D filing...).


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving