First Post - Not Sure Where I'm Headed

[Gordie]

Sorry you are here. I see hope in your situation in that your w has a specific and tangible complaint that is in your control. Focus on you and your issues. Give her space. Can you once and for all address your porn addiction? I don’t know much about it but assume there are programs available? Become the man you want to be...and only a fool would love. Initially, she may say too little, too late (she’s been telling you for years) so this needs to be a significant and life long change for you...and it may well save your marriage. Are there other issues?