My one regret was not kicking my W to the curb back in December 2016 when I found out about the A. I was a fool thinking that 17 years together, 15 years of MR and this family would suddenly shake my W out of this fantasy. OM was married with three children, been in several affairs and happened to be her sisters cousin. Dude was even great looking. And she knew nothing about this guy. But yet after sleeping with him, she was willing to leave her MR to be the OW. While plotting to break up his own MR. On paper and to everyone aware of the sitch, I was the obvious better choice. But my W could never see that. Guess that fantasy/fog is stronger than love itself.
