JJ....show her a happy, strong, confident and emotionally stable person who in the face of adversity doesn't waiver......that is how you can start to earn respect back. Essentially you have to start from square one and build up the attraction all over again. She needs to start to see you in a different light that is how you flip the script. The stronger you get the weaker she gets and you are no longer scared by D. Lovingly detach, don't make it punitivenor out of spite/anger.
