I have however asked my girls to tell me exactly when they see him, how he acts around them etc
You're totally right , Vapo.
I'm not thinking straight at this moment in time. I know that I'm still processing and trying to let go of the anger.
I'm not going to use my girls as listening devices, sorry if it sounded that way. I dont ever really want to mention OM in front of my kids again, I know its not suitable for them. Its not fair for them. BUT if I ever hear from them that he has been acting inappropriately or upsetting them, dude is in trouble.
I have been a great dad, they want to be with me all the time. I'm parenting now the way I always wanted to and its really showing. So proud of these little girls right now. We've never been closer, its the one silver lining from this whole experience.
M-45 W-32 D-10 D-8 Together 11 years Married 6 years Separated 6/2017 ILYBINILWY 11/2016 (also nov 2011) EA 11/16 PA Same time?? NC, detachment started 12/11/17 D aug 2019
