New LBS dealing with WW Part 3

[Joe2017]

So I read the post and it was a great list of things that can go wrong.

For me it might have been my struggle with taking control of every situation. She's such a controlling person that she would turn my decisions into arguments. When we would finally come to an understanding of that dynamic, she would say that she understands and will work on it. That didn't really get worked on, despite counseling. It would happen over and over, and then she would tell me I don't make any of the important decisions yet never relinquish any control over situations when I did try to take control. It was a constant cycle that I couldn't break, so I guess at some point I got tired of fighting. Maybe she viewed that as me being less dominant.

Who knows. Everything else I'm pretty strong on. Career is strong, parenting is strong, no weird emotional crap (until now), not a mamas boy, not lazy with yardwork and not a househusband inside, etc. No addictions, no drugs, no extramarital things. Emotionally available but not a nice guy. I wasn't a fat slob.

I dunno. Who knows. Not sure it makes a difference now.