I’ve said it before mate and I’ll say it again.

Just let it go.

She’ll do what she wants anyway. You’re not part of her plan. I hear you about enabling but she will do it anyway. You can’t stop it.

Let it go.

Peace bro.

Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.