Wife wont admit to affair and its driving me nuts!

[Morbo]

So once again. LEt it go, DO NOT do to OM's work and make a scene and possibly get arrested. Let that $hit go, deal with your anger in a healthy way.

Yeah, I realize I was being a crazy person, lol.
I'm not going to do it, going to take the high road.
I have however asked my girls to tell me exactly when they see him, how he acts around them etc
W and OM are going to be embarrassed enough tomorrow when I drop the kids to her work, only at the door, no confrontation. Older D is pretty disgusted by it all.

Be minimally available to your W and only for kid stuff and leave yucky OM to wallow in his own pond. He is beneath your notice and if it wasn't him, it would just have been someone else if she was inclined to stray.

Yes, there's no doubt she'd cheat with someone else. I already see flirting like hell with other dudes on Facebook.

So, no apologies yet from her. I contacted her today regarding Credit cards in my name that she uses and are almost maxed out. I didnt wish her happy New Year or anything. I have a feeling I'm going to be f**ked ovder for that. Going to talk to my bank tomorrow about what I can do and if we can divide the 2 cards into separate names.