It specifically had to do with the water situation in her house. For some reason, it wasn't working, W and kids couldn't shower or wash dishes, etc. She texted me to tell me about her troubles.
I am thinking I validated how hard she must be having it, but expressed faith in her ability to handle it. Am I wrong about that? I'll go back and reread the validation sticky, but I'd appreciate your insight.
Okay, that's fine. I missed the part about the water problems. I couldn't figure out what you were doing, but sounds good, now that you explained it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!