Happy New Year everyone! My parents are in town for a few days so it has been fun hanging out with them and the kiddos. My oldest got invited to a New Years Eve party last night at 1 of her soccer friends house so we went over there and she wanted to stay up until midnight to watch the ball drop. It was really fun and probably the first time I realized she is turning into a big girl! The W is out in Cali for the week visiting her brother and sister. So we shall see if she pursues D after she returns. I am cool either way and am not too focused on it. I know that I am great guy with a lot to offer so her loss.
M....the NUTS book is a good read. It just helps you define what your non-negotiables are for you as a person and in your next relationship. It also helps you identify your boundaries so for example if 1 of your NUTS is going rock climbing 2 times per week and your W asks you to watch the kids for a night so she can go out. Your cool with it because you have not sacrificed your NUTS. I hope that makes sense. It's a quick read.
