Interesting q about faith. My stbx was a real life church lady. She stopped going when she got involved in her current affair. These days the affair is still going strong and she has returned to church. I would think it would be difficult to go to church and then spend the day with your affair partner, but as has been pointed out to me many times, that would be too logical. So don’t assume she’s not going or that she is filled with guilt. Maybe she is filled with guilt. Maybe she doesn’t feel guilty at all.
What is important is that you and your boy are the family now...without the w. My d was crying about her absent mother and her lack of family...and I just reassured her that I loved her and that we are still a family...without her mother. Happy new year!
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
