I think your neighbour is spot on. He's walking all over you because he knows how passive (I like to think too nice) you are. He knows he can do whatever he wants and there'll be no consequences. Because he knows you love him. Well you can still love him and stand up for yourself. It could be the 180 that makes him sit up...or not! But either way it may make you feel a lot better about yourself and your situation.
See a lawyer...for advice if nothing else. He owes his daughter support and you too. Very important!
Definitely look into antidepressants. I wish you well in your quest to find whats medically wrong with you...and your quest to find the new you! Keep your chin up Nicole, and come here for a chat whenever, I'm here for you xx
Me 50 H 48 S 23 S 21 D 19 Together 31 years Married 25 years Separated April 2009 Reconciled 2010 Separated September 2017