Some have journaled up to restoration and others reconciled and didn't return to update because they are busy creating new marriages w/their spouses.

Here is a link to a thread of some of the success stories...Jack_Three-Beans was also a success story.

MLC Successes/Cinders List of Restored Marriages

Keep in mind, that this is a small community of restored marriages because some posters leave before reconciliation and we don't know what happened to them. Also, the people who are divorced and do not reconcile are success stories too. They have gone on to become stars who have met the MLC monster head on and saved themselves.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.