Today she calls me into the bathroom to talk about NYE plans with the kids and gets exremely flirty while wearing only a towel. She jokes I should take off my pants and so I pretend to. Then she says enough, but when I stretch and crack my back she says to stop showing off how limber I am.

It is so hard not to read into this. I know if I fall for it and press for a recon, she’s gonna swing right back to a cold and resentful.

Not wearing my ring today.


Me: Mid 40s W : Early 40s
M:11 T:13
S, D, both 7-10
BD : 11/2017
Separation : 1/18