Yes, if she was being truthful, then yes it was in that vein. Either she stuck it out for the kids and sucked it up for the next 10 years and D me after they grraduated high school or she just went ahead and did it now to give me a chance to find happiness while I was young.

She said similiar things at BD as well about how this would be good for me so I could find someone to make me happy. Like she was doing this for the both of us.

She has said enough stuff though, has still not followed through with D, so I really don't believe any of it.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018