RD yes it did take a few posts and even then I am not sure I ever got there ..perhaps time away from here may have helped perhaps,it was just the passing of time

Well Christmas was fantastic I had all my children with me ...strangely I did feel a little sad for My stbxw I gave her the chance to join us but she declained ...so hey ho no worries moee turkey for me !

Taking my younger children back and leaving them with my soon to be ex was hard again I'm not sure what is going to help getting into the routine perhaps time perhaps

So New Year's resolutions join a gym workout lose some of my weight this has been a hurdle for many years but one that this year I intend to crack

In January I intend to try and lose iat least one stone

I will post


I wish you all a fantastic New Year and I know that 2018 will be better for many


Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.