It's good to see an update from you, as always. I had to laugh just a tiny bit, when I read your post about why your W did the gift thing and why didn't she do this or that. I thought you had realized there is none of your male logic in that WW! Heck, there's not even any female logic in her.....and that's bad. (LOL)

I am so happy that your son and you have maintained a good relationship. I'm sure he knows how lucky he is to have a dad like you. When he is older, he will realize it even more.

I am also happy to hear that you continue to love your new location. I agree that you'll make lifelong friends there, too. You are just that kind of guy. smile

I'll have to confess something else. I laughed when I read about the new guy in her life. Did she actually step outside the fire station to find him......or was he a reject? I didn't really expect ole lover-boy FF to be so hot to trot, once he realized she was free and available to move full steam ahead with him. Funny how that works out, isn't it?

You have been so good to stay in contact after moving on with your life. It give me a sense of peace, I suppose, to hear you are contented. Not that I was worried, but you know what I mean.....don't ya? As you may know, I have often complained how people take off without us ever knowing what happened to them. So, FWIW, I really appreciate you taking the time to keep us informed. And, I like the way you help others, too. You have a lot to offer them.

Take care, friend. Hope to hear from you again.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!