Thx Zeus, I'm kinda the same mindset, 99% of communication is 100% business, no emotional.
Soooo... I snooped, I gotta say, over a year after physical seperation, snooping is still not a good idea.. But, I wanted to know the significance of the other guy at the meet, even though I was pretty certain. Checked FB, saw "public" announcement of "my baby".. Part of me is thankful it's not me about to take that ride, I already know she's a shitt¥ wife, but still ouch.
I'll just keep doing me, less than 2 weeks until D should be final and quite frankly I'm looking forward to being open to dating, I've found myself "noticing" several ladies lately, and looking forward to being free to persue those opportunities.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized