Yesterday was amazing!!! A whole day with all 4 of my children and their partners!

Unfortunately, son' s gf was working at 3pm so son drove her back to Timmins and came back to have supper with us. I gave him my truck to go home last night because he has to work a 7am to 3pm and has a supper at his father' s tonight. He should be there around 5h30. I' m not sure if i will be driving him back tonight or if he will keep my truck an extra day because he is working at 7am tomorrow to. We shall see.

When all the arrangement for rides were taking place, ex- h said he would go pick up son after his shift but told the girls to go help his gf to do things over there.

Needless to say, they had no interest. Also, son did not want to rely on his dad because ex- h works under his schedule not son' s and son did not want to wait for everybody to leave before getting his ride back. Like i said, he works at 7am tomorrow.

Son was not gonna go at all if i did not figure it all out. All 4 will be going but it looks like it will be a quick visit.

Now D2 is feeling bad for me because not only will i be alone but also without a vehicule. I said: hey, i offered my car freely. I was not planning on going anywhere. I could always text Mariette to pick me up if we decide to go for a coffee. I will be fine.:)

She knows i did have plans to go out. I was gonna join son' s gf after her shift and be with her until the rest of them came back.

Last night, we also invited future SIL' s mother to join us for supper. She came. We played games and had fun.

Today, cleaning and re-organising the house. Plenty of left over so no supper to cook.. it' s an easy, slow paste but getting things done kind of day.

The kids will be heading out around 4 ( i presume, maybe even later). Ex- h has invited Kara. A daughter of his from his teenager years, our 4 kids, and probably gf' s kids. It does not seem like " little lady3' s child was invited as he claims it is not his.. i am sure i will hear about tonight when they get back. Quite the circus. I often wonder if there is more kids i do not know about? And yet, if the answer was yes, it would only repulse me even more. But in this day and age, this seem to be the norm.. and i refuse to make it my norm. I do not fit in this new era

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