BH....it took my W a little over 4 months before she was able to relax around me some and realized the pressure had been removed. It sounds like your doing all the right things and the rest will be up to her.

Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018