Advice

[Caz49]

Wow, Fish, thats some rollercoaster ride you've been on for a while.

Yes, he sounds immature...and completely confused.

His OW sounds like a keeper...not!! He will have a pretty awful life with that one I think, (no sympathy from me...) But, she is screwing with his head and you're being the calm oasis, no wonder he says he misses you.

Did you read Zues's new thread...it's great and has some really good reminders for those of us that read too much into these exchanges with our S.

Keep doing the great work you're doing. Keep calm, and soon hopefully H will attend those sessions...fingers crossed work ones are better than nothing...and he will at least realise he has a chance to be a good dad, if and when he wakes up. Keep the path clear for this...you sound like you're doing a remarkable job at that already.

I wish I had your steady resolve.

It is exciting getting ready and nesting...that's your focus and you're right to be doing that. Best wishes Fish.