WAW on rebound, toxic inlaws, mental health issues

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I am certain there must be deeper reasons for them to behave like this, but in the mean time I have a WAW. The case has been resolved so that fact can no longer be changed.

Currently I don't think reaching out to her in any way shape or form would make a difference to her "feelings". She would most likely just get more angry.

From recent conversations with friends that have spoken to her I am now aware of the following:
- she is furious with me for reading her messages and betraying her privacy
- she is even more furious that I have disclosed information about her adultery to her friends and dad
- she doesn't trust me nor does she trust anybody who talks to me

This was also the reason why, after numerous attempts by her dad to talk to her, she finally told him she never wanted to see him again. She explained herself to her friend a few weeks later saying that she does not trust her dad because he talks to me.

In the meantime MiL and SDiL believe they have been victorious. Their daughter is finally removed from this horrible H.

I think the best solution here is time, because she will soon see that her current R will lead to nothing.
But in order for us to RC, she needs to stand up and defy her parents. And that will be hard graft.

I have both DB/DR books and read them both. Also I have requested 3 coaching sessions, just to get a professional view on the situation and any recommendations for the time being.