Here Again

[Jim1234]

Yeah, I have the same interactions with my W. Something I struggle with, though, is creating positive interactions, vs disengaging. So many of our interactions were negative before the DB that I guess I think if the interactions are positive and pleasant, she won't be adverse to interacting more, spending more time with me, etc., and we can rebuild a relationship that way. I tried to do a lot of that before. It didn't really get me anywhere, and I'm finding as time goes on, I'm not making much effort to engage her when the opportunity presents itself, like at the Christmas Eve party, or like you, over dinner.