New LBS dealing with WW Part 2

[Joe2017]

Sandi: I know you're right. If I had just said screw it from the beginning I'd be much better off.

I have only been in this process for five weeks now. I started DB at about 2 weeks. I slipped a couple times and set myself back, but I've been pretty steadfast for the past 2.5 weeks with no mistakes. I have been 99% NC during those 2.5 weeks. I am only responding to money and kid related topics via impersonal fact-based emails. It is driving her bonkers and she won't leave me alone for more than a day.

The problem is I have to go back to the home per my attorney. I also think I can show more control of the situation by being in my own home sleeping in my own bed and responding in person in the most DB way possible. I am still moving forward with the divorce, no silly games on my end.

Sandi, do you think I should return to my home? If it is the wrong thing to do I will tell my lawyer that I feel it is best not to be there and find out a way for me to stay out of the house. From the WW's perspective, does it show weakness walking away from the marital home? I have told her to get the hell out of the house but she won't.

She has 100% relented to me taking the MBR to myself. What is the best way to get her to leave?

I know it is NOT a good idea to tell her to go live with OM, but that's what makes sense. I don't know how to get her out of my house.

Thanks EVERYONE for slapping my wrist before I do something stupid.